These have been around for quite some time, but, once in a while, I am reminded that they never lose their meaning or importance.  So often we believe we own our pets.  I will never “buy” a pet — I always adopt them, and they are always rescues.  These simple truths are some of the most important rules that anyone who loves their pet(s) can live by.

1.  My life is likely to last 10 to 15 years.  Any separation from you will be painful for me.

2.  Give me time to understand what you want of me.

3.  Place your trust in me — it’s crucial to my well-being.

4.  Don’t be angry with me for long, and don’t lock me up for punishment.  You have your work, your friends, and your entertainment.  I have only you.

5.  Talk to me sometimes.  Even if I don’t understand your words, I understand your voice when it’s speaking to me.

6.  Be aware that however you treat me, I’ll never forget it.

7.  Remember before you hit me that I have teeth that could easily crush the bones of your hand, but I choose not to bite you.

8.  Before you scold me for being uncooperative, obstinate or lazy, ask yourself if something may be bothering me.  Perhaps I’m not getting the right foods, I’ve been out in the sun too long, or my heart is getting old and weak.

9.  Take care of me when I get old…you too will grow old.

10.  Go with me on difficult journeys.  Never say, “I can’t bear to watch it,” or, “Let it happen in my absence.”  Everything is easier for me if you are there.  Above all, remember that I love you.