Loki resting on my lap as sunlight falls over half his face.
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And when we say goodbye
Beneath a cover of sunlight he lay squinty-eyed and trembling, his new world ever changing, ever crumbling.
What has become of the grand master of the house? What blight tears away at his spirit with such abominable disregard for this majestic survivor?
At the nexus between what was and what is to be rests that which is. For Grendel, the threads connecting past to future weave a wicked tapestry indeed.
Weakness becomes him, claims at every turn yet another piece of the invincible soul that once was.
As the cloak of his days wraps endlessly around him, the pattern knitted strikes me as unbecoming one so beautiful, one whose tiger stripes demand respect, whose green eyes glint with the fire of timeless splendor.
Yet even master predators must give way to the cosmos.
He throws about his essence the drapery of one who has suffered much, seen far, lived superbly and, most importantly, experienced true happiness.
A home full of love surrounded him at all times, a home with familiars respectful of his dominance and longing for but one more moment in the light of his being.
Only now in the dimming twilight do any of us comprehend what will be lost.
The once unconquerable patriarch, the master of all, now scarcely hides his tremors, wistfully swells in challenge only to cower under the spread of his perpetual decline.
His first year colored the cloth that would envelop his existence for all the days to come. One ailment after another beset him.
And in my quest to manage the ills of his flesh did I also lace into the years the very demon that likely would strike him down.
I care not for more tests, more examinations bent on finding the next cause and, therefore, the next solution.
Causes have effects. Effects brought us to where we are today.
Mind his suffering, mind his health, mind his well-being, but subject this handsome creature to more devilish fiends that will do nothing more but prolong the agony?
Absolutely not.
Long have I held that in life it is quality that matters most, not quantity. What is living for a hundred years if the last twenty are spent being sponge-bathed and spoon-fed in a facility where true living has no meaning?
Why should it be different for my children?
Grendel has fewer days ahead than he does behind, a bridge we all cross at some point in our lives. He faces the reality of his body’s continuing battle against his will.
Would that I could give him some of the life in me, that I might conquer the inevitable by carving from my own self a relief capable of undoing the pattern that life’s loom has woven for him.
But instead I reach out, offer him the adoration that brings a purr through the shaking, share a bit of time in the sun with one who deserves more than he has received.
Of tremors and fevers
I watch him as he quivers, his body shaken frequently yet not terribly.
Small, fast movements easily mistaken for the shivers of someone briefly struck with a sense of cold, with chills.
But over time even the doctors agree they represent something else, something akin to the tremors suffered by a Parkinson’s or Alzheimer’s patient.
And tremors they are.
Whether he be lying down for a nap, sitting patiently waiting for treats or standing nearby watching to see where I might be going, I see the shudders as clearly as I might see the sun climb above the horizon.
Tremors the doctor called them, signs of possible neurological damage from a lifetime of systemic steroid use.
So we wait and we watch and we hope things do not worsen.
I nevertheless believe his twelve years of life come next February could well mark a turning point for him, a signpost lighted as evidence of things to come, of a life winding down like an old clock, of a sponge from whom no more can be wrung.
Wait and watch…
Another sickly chap maintains a lesser weight than he once carried, a panther reduced in size but not spirit.
Or almost.
His immune system dysfunction does regularly battle with his quest for happiness. A lonesome fatigue results.
Scarcely more than ten years old in human terms, already he demonstrates a slowing skill for causing trouble. Only slightly though.
When at night he curls up with me under the sheets and rests his head upon my arm, his head tickling my face with hair, I forget easily the vulnerability he suffers, the near-fatal episode he recently survived as his body did war against itself.
No greater love can be found in any juvenile-minded life than exists in this dear soul, this marvelous baby whose fevers do little to diminish his spirit.
Upon how many fields must we stand and fight before this ghoulish villain leaves him to enjoy his days? Or can such a thing even be accomplished?
Wait and watch…
Cats and windows go hand in hand
Like humans in front of a television, felines can be couch potatoes when it comes to viewing the outside world. Vazra demonstrates this with his usual Persian composure and steadfastness.
My Baby Boy
Sunset provided just the right light to capture the very soft, very lovable side of Kazon.