Solitude

This has always been one of my most favorite poems.  It is “Solitude” by Ella Wheeler Wilcox.  Since it has occupied my mind of late, sharing it with you seemed the most apparent next step.  Do not for a moment think it conveys only what first impression you might get; it says much more than the obvious.

Laugh, and the world laughs with you;
Weep, and you weep alone.
For the sad old earth must borrow it’s mirth,
But has trouble enough of it’s own.
Sing, and the hills will answer;
Sigh, it is lost on the air.
The echoes bound to a joyful sound,
But shrink from voicing care.

Rejoice, and men will seek you;
Grieve, and they turn and go.
They want full measure of all your pleasure,
But they do not need your woe.
Be glad, and your friends are many;
Be sad, and you lose them all.
There are none to decline your nectared wine,
But alone you must drink life’s gall.

Feast, and your halls are crowded;
Fast, and the world goes by.
Succeed and give, and it helps you live,
But no man can help you die.
There is room in the halls of pleasure
For a long and lordly train,
But one by one we must all file on
Through the narrow aisles of pain.

The three question personality test

It’s Friday, so it’s time for an internet quiz.  I suspect you can load this one considering it really is only three questions.  I still found the results interesting as they’re quite accurate in many ways.  I bet I could say the same of any other response I might have received since they’re overly broad so as to be most applicable.


Your Personality Is

Artisan (SP)

You are both grounded and flexible. You adapt well to new situations.
You are playful and free spirited – but you are also dependable and never flaky.

You don’t do well in conservative, stuffy situations.
It’s probably very hard for you to keep a normal job or stay in school.

You are always up for fun and adventure. Most people are too boring for you.
You take risks and bend the rules. And if things don’t work out, you chock it up to life experience.

In love, you tend to take things quickly – but you have a huge problem with commitment.

At work, you need to make your own rules. You’re best suited to be an entrepreneur.

With others, you are animated and physical. You prefer doing something with friends to just hanging out.

As far as your looks go, you tend to be buff and in good shape. Your spend more time on your body than your clothes.

On weekends, you need to keep active. From cooking up a storm to running a 5K, you wear yourself out.

Open thread

The 35th Skeptics’ Circle was prepared by a guest blogger this time around.  The bonehead has been trying to hijack the pseudonym of an already well-known blogger, Skeptico, and that’s who was to host this edition.  The faker was invited to prepare the carnival and did so using his anti-science, creationist point of view.  Despite his ramblings throughout, the circus is replete with excellent critical thinking.  Go for the posts that are linked, but ignore the religious nonsense and fake science in his babblings.  Go get your doubt on.

A new study indicates chocolate is good for the brain, essentially boosting brain power.  Need I say more?

I and the Bird #24 is available and has all the latest avian news from around the blogosphere.  The presentation is phenomenal: the carnival host used his own original artwork to represent each entry.  Very cool.

Check out this photo of Saturn and its moon, Janus.  The perspective is a nearly edge-on view of the rings with Janus, the tiny little dot, hovering just below the paper-thin ring system.  Also note the ring shadows cast on Saturn at the top of the photo.

Thanks to Norbizness and his stupid blogiversary thing, I’ve discovered a new blog that has had me sitting here laughing uproariously for half an hour.  The blog is PunkAssBlog.com.  It’s already become a regular source of mental input for me.  To understand why, go read Online dating advice for taste-impaired men everywhere.  It will definitely tickle your funny bone.  Go; do as I say.  Yes, I realize it seems dauntingly protracted, so set aside a few minutes to read it.  Good stuff.

We’re making progress on the cloaking device technology.  This is getting rather interesting, although we are a long way from having a usable version.  Still…  The initial concept, based on use of “metamaterials,” would be used “to cloak an object and hide it from visible light, infrared light, microwaves and perhaps even sonar probes.”  We’re goin’ Romulan!

Friday Ark #88 is up and has the best animal news from around the blogosphere.  Remember, the Ark is updated Friday through Sunday, so check back often for new posts.

And here’s Vazra

As promised, here are some photos of Vazra.  What you’ll notice throughout is the condition of his fur: terrible.  While I can honestly say he looks better now than he did just a week or so ago, the knots are still there, not all of which are obvious, and what they’ve done to him is horrific.  There are places where a knot has rolled back through his coat and ripped out all the hair in the process, essentially leaving a racing stripe of bare skin in its wake.  Those spots are now starting to grow back in, but the knots remain intact — and I mean several of them spread over his entire body, as well as what I can’t see on his tummy and under his legs.  This is why it’s imperative for me to get him to the vet for grooming.  Knots like this are extremely painful.  Imagine having your hair pulled 24 hours per day every day as it slowly rips itself out of your head; imagine those knots tracking across your body as they slowly entangle every bit of hair around them; imagine anything that touches those knots causes the pain to increase manyfold; imagine losing your protection from the elements as your hair rips itself out of your body in more than half-a-dozen places simultaneously.  That is Vazra’s current existence.

The first one is of him sitting on the fence after enjoying some dinner and a whole lotta lovin’.  If you click on the photo, you’ll see a high resolution version that makes it easier to see one of the large knots in his fur.  It’s on his right side just in front of his tail (in this picture, that would be just above his tail).  That’s the knot that literally stripped all of the fur off of his right side.  That’s why it looks so ragged and disheveled; the fur is just beginning to grow back in, but the bald spot (literally his entire side) is still quite visible.

Vazra sitting on the fence (144_4452)

There’s always time for a bit of something to eat, right?

Vazra having some dinner on the patio (144_4445)

Here’s another one of him eating that was taken from the other side.  Again, click on it for a hi-res version that better shows the enormous knot and stripped fur on that side of his body.  What you see is the knot there at his ass end and the nearly exposed skin along his entire side.  The knot apparently started just behind his neck and has worked its way to the opposite end of his body by ripping out all the hair along the way.  Major ouch.

Vazra grabbing a bit to eat on the patio (144_4446)

Here’s one that shows one of the knots on his neck (the black ball in the center of the picture).  Again, click on it for a closer look.

Vazra looking out from the patio (144_4450)

And one more of him sitting on the fence.  A mockingbird saw him and flew into the tree to taunt Vazra and, should an opportunity present itself, attack him as well.  That’s why Vazra’s looking up into the tree, a position he held for some time after this photo was taken while he and the bird decided just how far they wanted to take this.  Eventually, even though the bird continued mocking him from the tree, my new feline friend lost interest, jumped down, and went on about his business.  The mockingbird chased him as you’d expect; Vazra just ignored it and continued on his way.

Vazra sitting on the fence watching a mockingbird in the tree (144_4451)